Problem? What problem?

"I'm usually about eighty percent of the problem - well, maybe sixty percent, but the major part, you can bet on that. If I can leave out the largest percent (me), there is hardly any problem at all!"

Responsibility

"I've learned that I am not responsible for anyone's happiness except my own. Most importantly, I learned that true happiness is an inside job."

Growth!

"The essence of all growth is a willingness to change for the better and then an unremitting willingness to shoulder whatever responsibility this entails."